Kids — in fact, everyone — develop according to their own timelines. Some are faster at learning some things than others. For example, my son learned to walk when he was 13 months old, but my daughter didn't walk until she was 20 months old. We knew that this was perfectly normal and didn't worry.
But in school, if you take more time to learn certain things, esp. how to read and write, then you are labeled as “developmentally delayed.” It’s important not to look at delays in development as signs that kids are broken and need to be fixed. If you look at people as though they are broken and need fixing, a profound disconnection emerges between you and them. This is disturbing in any context, but it’s especially disturbing in a school setting, much less the very first school setting that children have, i.e., pre-school (where the stage is often set for children who are not as fast as some of their peers.)
My wife and I found this out first-hand. We sent our daughter to our local neighborhood school for pre-K, a school considered "low income" because it receives federal Title 1 money. We were alarmed at how anti-child it was, esp. with regard to recess, free time, and testing. I met with the principal and with the classroom teacher and expressed my concerns about the overly-academic orientation of the curriculum. I noticed the effect the school was having on my daughter’s attitude towards school and learning. So we decided to look elsewhere, knowing that the Kindergarten curriculum at our neighborhood school was even more anti-child, overly-academic, high stakes, test-centric, and highly structured. As I wrote about
here, my daughter’s experience with writing her name before she was able to or willing to do so had a profoundly negative effect on her, and I still harbor bad feelings towards the school for forcing kids to be at the same “grade level benchmarks” at the same time.
Her current school was a real life-saver for her because the school honors the fact that different kids develop at different paces. She is now thriving there and really likes it. And not only is she writing her name, but she’s actually copying text out of books on her own, writing stories (most of which she dictates to me), and writing words she sees on a daily basis.
Had she stayed at our neighborhood school, she would have been labeled “a slow learner.” She would have been put into a slow group. She would have known right away that there was something wrong with her (at least, from the school’s perspective.) Of course, I’ll never know what may have happened in the long run if she had stayed there. But it’s not too much of a stretch for me to imagine her hating school, hating the fact that she had to write anything, and generally feeling like she was a failure.
These are high stakes here. We are talking about paving the future for the lives of children. This is especially critical for low-income and low-income minority children, who are disproportionately labeled "learning disabled" and who typically do not have parents with enough social capital to fight the system on behalf of their children.
Over on another blog called PPS Equity, I wrote about a school in Portland, OR called Rosa Parks Elementary. 91% of the kids at Rosa Parks are eligible for free or reduced price lunch. The Kindergartners have 3 “specials”: drama, PE, and library. They are all 30 minutes each, and they are all offered back-to-back on Wednesdays. So for an hour and a half, the kids go from one to the other.
Then, on Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays, they do nothing but the academic curriculum. No art, no music, no PE, no library, no nuthin’ for 4 out of 5 days.
They have a single lunch/recess period that lasts about 40 minutes. The kids eat lunch first and then go to recess. A Kindergarten teacher at Rosa Parks that I talked to estimated that recess was about 20 to 25 minutes long, depending on when the kids finish lunch. School starts at 8:30 and goes until 2:45. So that means for those 4 out of 5 days, they have 25 minutes to be goofy and run around and be little kids in a span of 6 hours. The rest is all business.
Meanwhile, on the other side of the tracks, students in the affluent neighborhood school of Ainsworth get not one, not two, but three recesses per day. At Ainsworth, Kindergarten kids get PE, music, art and singing once a week each. They get 30 minutes for PE and music and an hour for art. Singing happens every Friday.
5.9% (five point nine per cent) of the kids at Ainsworth are eligible for free and reduced lunch.
The upshot? Low-income students and low-income minority students are being given a qualitatively inferior education because they are said to be “behind” in reading and math.
We have to stop pathologizing children for being where they are in their development, stop robbing them of a broad-based educational experience in the name of raising their test scores, and stop punishing low-income kids for being at the effect of the ravages of poverty in the name of closing the so-called “achievement gap.”
Dumbing down the educational experience of low-income children does not help them in the long run. Pathologizing them as they're just beginning to take shape as learners virtually seals their fates.